UMANIAMO®

We are a 508(c)(1)(a) non-profit faith-based organization.

There are moments in life when something feels off, even if nothing is obviously wrong. You may be working, providing, showing up for others. You may be faithful, thoughtful, committed and yet something inside you knows that speed, noise, and constant performance are not the same as strength. UMANIAMOⓇ was born for people standing in that quiet space. It is a nonprofit formation movement rooted in a simple conviction:

We are human together — or not at all.

This work is not about fixing people or convincing them of anything. It is about creating places where human life can slow down enough to become whole again.

What We Mean by Formation

Formation is not a program you complete or a version of yourself you optimize. Formation is the long, lived process through which a person becomes able to carry real life…  relationships, responsibility, work, faith, without losing themselves or others along the way.

Formation happens slowly. It happens through practice, reflection, conversation, and time. It happens when the mind, body, heart, and actions begin to tell the same story. Most people today are capable, intelligent, and well-intentioned, but unformed. They know what to do, yet feel strained trying to hold it all together.

Formation restores proportion. Not by doing more, but by becoming able to carry what is already here.

Who This Is For

Most people who arrive at UMANIAMOⓇ do not come as Builders.

They come as Pilgrims. Pilgrims are people who sense that life asks more than performance, but less than fanaticism. They are already walking, already searching, already listening. Pilgrims are welcome here.

Builders are not recruited. Builders are formed — slowly, often quietly, through lived experience. In UMANIAMOⓇ, a Builder is not someone who is stronger, louder, or more certain.

A Builder is someone who has been formed enough to carry responsibility for work, for family, for others  without collapsing or becoming hardened. No one begins here as a Builder. Builders are formed slowly, through life, practice, and relationship.

This work honors where people actually are, not where they think they should be. That’s the first step, notice what is in specific detail, not what I wish it to be.

The Sunday Table

Formation does not happen alone.

At the center of UMANIAMOⓇ is The Sunday Table a weekly rhythm of reflection and practice inspired by the old human wisdom of gathering, eating, listening, and speaking honestly.

Each Sunday Table edition includes:

  • a shared theme

  • a long-form reflection

  • guided questions

  • embodied and relational practices

The Table is meant for families, small groups, classrooms, and quiet personal reflection.
It is not something to rush through. You are invited to sit, not to perform.

In UMANIAMOⓇ language Performative is the opposite of formation.

  • Performance asks: How do I look?

  • Formation asks: Who am I becoming?

That’s why UMANIAMOⓇ resists performance. What matters here is not what can be shown, but what can be carried.

A Library Meant to Be Returned To

A Quiet Invitation

Some ideas need time to settle in. The Formation Library holds long-form essays on leadership, embodiment, masculine formation, coherence, and the human cost of modern life.

These are not articles written to provoke reaction or agreement. They are written to be lived with. Returned to Argued with. Revisited years later. Formation respects time.

A Quiet Invitation

UMANIAMOⓇ does not promise safety, certainty, or quick answers. What it offers is formation the kind that allows a person to stand more steadily in their life, their family, their work, and their faith. If this resonates, you are welcome to begin at the Table.

Stay at the Table

The Sunday Table is a weekly rhythm of reflection and practice.
If you’d like to receive it by email, you’re welcome to join.

You’ll receive the Sunday Table and occasional reflections from UMANIAMOⓇ. No noise. No pressure.